These women may not be looking for a serious relationship right now. Chiseled good looks are subconsciously associated with jerks, meaning women tend to favor these characteristics over submissive traits in times of heightened sexual drive.
It might seem odd, but that's because it is. Our bodies are so complex when it comes to hormones and our genetic make-up that we have a difficult time processing the way we feel about certain things and people. This doesn't mean that every woman on the planet is a sucker for chiseled cheeks and a sharp jawline, but there might be times when they prefer the jerk over the nice guy.
Source: pexels. Chasing and claiming a "bad boy" delivers a confidence boost that many women desire. Guys who act like jerks typically don't fall head-over-heels for women. Instead, these guys prefer the old "hard-to-get" strategy because it makes them appear less vulnerable. Even though these men won't give women the time and attention they often want, some women still crave acceptance from a jerk. Now, if you're a guy reading this and you're wondering why this makes no sense, we can't say we blame you.
However, it's true that some women enjoy the challenge of pursuing a guy who doesn't seem to be interested in them because it creates a sense of tension that often leads to intense feelings of desire.
However, it's important to note that these dynamics don't create the foundation for a healthy relationship. If you're a guy reading this article, you might feel a bit frustrated, especially if you're not a jerk in which case, we applaud you. That is completely understandable, and there's also hope. As mentioned previously, evidence shows that, later on in life, women value kindness in potential partners when they're ready to create a fulfilling, long-term relationship.
Some girls like jerks because they believe they'll be the ones to change the jerk's behavior for the better. When these women see a guy who appears angry and disrespectful, they want to change this man into a more passionate, caring person.
Unfortunately, this is rarely possible because most people won't change unless they actually want to change. Nonetheless, some women find themselves attracted to the "bad boy" personality for this reason.
This can also explain why some women stay in toxic relationships. Somewhere deep down, they hold on to hope that their significant other will change one day. This typically ends in one of two ways: either the man eventually changes, or he keeps acting like a jerk. If this leaves you scratching your head and wondering why some women want this, know that society plays a role. We've all heard the story of an angelic, caring woman who fixes or saved a cruel, cocky bad boy; just look at the movie Cruel Intentions for an example.
This doesn't excuse the behavior or the drive, but it does help to explain why it exists. Source: unsplash. Sometimes, dating a jerk is more about adding a little excitement and unpredictability to life. An unreliable, transient partner delivers this and more. I know this might be hard for a lot of good guys to understand, but the classic saying about women loving jerks is true in a lot of cases.
You would imagine most girls grow out of this after high school, but I know tons of women who suffer from the same poor judgement as adults. Women are complex creatures, and even though we say we want peace and happiness, our inner drama queen requires more intensity. Sure, a guy who cuddles you to sleep every night and runs to the store to buy you ice cream when you have cramps is amazing, but is that what makes a woman's panties wet? Unfortunately not. Suddenly every girl is in competition to see if they can be the one to break his asshole spell and turn him into a nice guy.
I definitely ran after my fair share of jerks as a teenager, and it was always in hopes of securing that coveted girlfriend spot for which so many other broads strived. I think that's an excellent post and a very important P. I don't think people realize that just because they can suppress their jerkness now, doesn't mean they'do it for long.
A girl can have a positive influence on a guy, but rarely can she change him. Because at the end of the day, men secretly want just one thing. Thousands of women who discovered this one male desire have used it to turn hopeless situations into the life fulfilling relationships they always dreamed of.
The kind of loving companionship and exciting romance that you deserve. Monday, August 11, "I Like Jerks". It was a sad realization that crept up on me these past few years. What all my findings sum up to is that women like seemingly confident men, and are biologically attracted to men who appear to have good genes to pass on.
That is an overly-simplified conclusion, but here is the expanded version:. First, what characteristics make someone a jerk?
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